Hahaha! You sound so much like me, we should start our own 'group' for disorganised and totally random steemians, publish a few guides on how to be a better steemit member, then NOT join the group!
Having said that, I will take your advice and guidance & get involved with the newbieresteemday initiative, they sound like really cool people and I'm definitely with you on the getting to know people and personal growth through writing and interacting, I also love learning new things!