In this issue. I would like to give a little input.
In my opinion. Love, acceptance, respect, desired, security, passion, is everything a woman wants may be in conjunction. In fact this is the foundation that may be all people want. There are certainly other people and each person has a specific desire. I want to focus on here is the specific aspect of emotional security in relationships.
The challenge in this is that satisfying feeling "safe" sometimes resulted from the opposite dynamics and this can create conflict. How do the feelings of a woman with a man can change from time to time depending on the strength of the opponent. This can cause confusion about what he wants. It could also confuse the guy when he seemed to want two different things.
If we are aware of conflicting belief paradigm, it could begin to make more sense and eliminate confusion.
Thank my Teacher @nomad-magus
Indeed, that can be a good point to begin.
It's important to remember though that the outer reflects the inner. Meaning, if our spouse is confused or emotionally not stable, it reflects a part in us that is in doubt or not secure enough. Once we are clear with ourselves the outside fog will dissapear.
Thanks for the sharing 👍