Haha (in his view) , he provides for himself and understands that if he wants something needs to "lazy work" to get it? has food and a home? maybe he is quite successful in the view of someone who is content.
I think the fact that they feel they can even ask you for help when needed is a strength in the relationship and that they don't ask without reason mostly. That shows that you have successfully also created boundaries which promotes maturity. First google it yourself before asking the person right next to you a dumb question effectively haha
Yep. Boundaries was always the word in our house. They hated when I would say, "There are boundaries! Ask yourself if you have crossed any!"
My son is definitely a success, even if it isn't to others. He is happy and content. That makes me very happy.