I have not found any of your post or comments too vulgar on steemit or even Twitter or YouTube where I do follow you. Yes we must have opinions of both, agree or disagree to a statement.
There are many people/whales on steemit who I found abusive towards you but your replies are always humble though sometimes contradictory towards their opinion.
People should make themselves flexible to situations or opinions. It may be sometimes rude for a short period but for the long run, our decisions are always handled by ourselves. So, we must respect our decision of both agreeing or disagreeing.