Bare with me on this for a minute will you? I am of the opinion it's very important for us to present ourselves in the manner we want to be addressed. If you dress like homeless person, people treat you as such. Get my drift? Same applies to those who maybe trying to get to the dating scene to no avail. If you look shabby with how you dress, nobody will give you a second look.
What do you guys think?
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Maybe... maybe not.... attractive is relative. Think about the penguins. They sing a song and the woman will pass up some handsome penguins for the one with the right note. I think our individuality is what helps us find whos right for us... Kinda like our "note". <3 LOVE YOU TOOOOOO
P.S. your out fit wasn't that bad, hAAAAA. I understand what you mean, because you do dress very pretty and today was a down day. Not that it looked bad, not that it has a pop to it either but It looks comfortable. Which is what we want on a saturday!!!
Yes it was comfortable! I could do that all summer😄😄
Besides the pairing and the colors, it probably would be an okay outfit. I just felt like such a rainbow!
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Hey so it is really an interesting question and I want to give my two cents to the conversation :)
I think your shirt is awesome as well as your hair style!! Your pants and shoes fit also quite good to the rest. I don't understand your problem ^^ I love yellow clothes because they shine like the sun and they underlining smiling people :) I think if I would be single and also on the market I would have smiled to you. But because I am shy - I wouldn't ask you out for a coffee.. but that's another story.
I for myself never think twice about my outfit. I take the clothes I want in the first second in front of the closet. And I feel good with it for the rest of the day & never question it anytime. I think it is because:
Some years ago with the age of 18-25 I was more into this kind of self criticism and thought twice or more about my outfit, hair, beard and so on. I had some expensive clothes I needed to iron and so on lol. So much work for nothing..
Because the people who really can fall in love with you, are the people who feel attracted to you when you are wearing the clothes you like. And obviously you like your own clothes :P
I think one big reason why a lot of people are single is, that we have all options at any time. The online and social media world taught us that we can easily flirt with people online and we think we would loose all these options of we get engaged.
Thanks for bringing this up and giving me the reason to think about what I have written down :P
You will find the right one (if you don't have him/her already :) ) if the time is right!
Peace!
Hahhaa.. Her?? MY! I'M African, that is not an option😂
Ok ok.
You have made a lot of valid points. But my point was, for you to actually consider approaching someone, don't you always have to be attracted to what you see on the outside first?
I realize most of the Western world doesn't care much about how they dress, but it's really a big deal here. People would really make fun of you if you had so much color (miss matched color) like I had. That was the only issue lol
Anyways, thanks a bunch for your wonderful input. Really enjoyed reading it :))
STEEM ON!
Hey :) Yeah that's why I think your question was a deep and good one.
Every human being tends to judge their surroundings by first sight. But if we are aware of this first judgment, we can try to escape this superficiality and get to know people with extreme colorful souls wearing extreme colorful clothes, if we give them a second chance.
I really want to point out that I am not looking on ouside properties, hairstyle, clothes. I approach someone who is kind, has a nice aura, beautiful eyes and so on. The costume is not important for me. But thats just my personal opinion and taste :)
Peace!
wait you're not Single are you? you're beautiful, and i love your outfit, and you also have somethin in your Brain and something in your soul. like who'd not want to date you? i would approach you with that outfit on you. <3
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Something in my brain.. Wow. I'll take that as a compliment😂
2 years and counting. Maybe things will turn around soon😄👌
do you have twitter or skype?
you are not single are you?