I’ve seen people go to extremes once they found “the one” and I’ve just never understood it. They talk about all these things they will do for rest of their lives with a single person. I’m happy for if that’s what works for them. Then they just do oddest things they burn the bridges all around them put up a wall and declare its just them and their partner against the entire world.
I have times where I really enjoy being the lone wolf and then times I want and need community in my life. Life is so strange but that is part of the fun of it.