Well the rewards on this post are looking pretty awesome at the moment so anything I was going to say about that part of your video (that the subject may not have been the reason your original video was ignored) becomes redundant. Though I haven't started posting myself yet, I expect to face the same lack of attention, though I have to say one post per month with the rewards this one has would do me fine. Do you think bots are so bad, used reasonably? They don't seem to be looked down on as necessarily bad or unethical in themselves, and I've contemplated using them myself just to get some initial visibility. Definitely a lot a abuse of them (or shall we say taking advantage of decentralization) going on here. I'd be interested to hear your views if you haven't already given them.
Seems to me you are on Steemit for all the right reasons and I wish you well. You seem to have a totally healthy view of life, the body and sexuality, which in the western world anyway so many are hung up on. I guess the problem might be finding another person who you can be sure is on the same page as you (if that's even important), rather than the page 99% of guys, for example, are on. You're very natural and fluent in front of the camera, if I may say so. Is this because you're used to doing it? I haven't checked but was it even all done in one take? Certainly not many.
I'm no-one to give tips, but would it have been a good idea to link to the other video from this one?
I'll be looking out for you. Keep enjoying life, and your stay there, as much as it looks as if you are.
Namasté
Thank you so much for your comment, ha I actually don't even watch what I've taped before I post, I don't know how to edit yet so it's all pretty raw and natural.
As for the bots I'm just committed to doing it without because I believe that this platform was created for community but somewhere along the way people started making $$$ and forgot and the newcomers like us are having to resort to bots to get noticed :/ ... I just want to build an authentic connection with people and believe that the right people will watch my videos and read my posts. This is how we build our community and empower each other :)
Thanks for your comment again!
Namaste
You're welcome. Yep, when I watched the 'first' video I saw there's no editing whatsover. It's just that most people would be self-conscious if they taped themselves but you just turn on and go. What this shows is that whatever you do is working - you're totally at ease with yourself.
Let's try to manage without the bots, see how far we get. I suspect you will have more chance than me. Some people would say that the people who created this platform, while they may have had community in mind, were careful to make sure they would not be short of $$$. :o)
As to the subject of the videos itself, something neither you nor any of the comments mention is stimulution. My guess would be that generally the genders differ on this. As a guy I can't imagine masturbating without a visual stimulus, and it would have to be a sexual thing. A vibrator, without getting too much into the weeds, is off the table. The way you talk makes me think that, ridiculous as it seems to say it, for you it's not a sexual activity at all, or hardly, but sort of like an extension of your exploration of your own being and body, like a different branch of yoga.
Namasté