well "comparison is a thief of joy"' but still everyone does it. I think it is in human nature because tribes had benefits to identify with their own people forming groups. there you need something like this. But I think today we d be well advised to leave such thoughts behind.
everyone of us co-creating reality. Somethings things need to be challenged to overcome. Sadly hard times for such individuals on platforms like steemit, because big revenues are earned in things which appears to the masses. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Thanks for such reply. I like this ''"comparison is a thief of joy" , looks nice a nice proverb I need always to remember. Let's create our own reality by following our heart. ♥ Sometimes intuition helps as well. ☺