Remove emotions from your trading, and trade in a disciplined manner
Although the market has patterns and trends, it is not a living and breathing entity. She is not evil, neither loves nor hates you. Keep this in mind when making your decisions and remove emotions from your trading.
You may feel the need to "take revenge" from the market, keeping in mind all the times you have incurred the loss. You may feel that the "city" market for you is something comparable to all the sacrifices you made. But things are not so straight. Market movements occur as a result of many factors; they do not move in a particular way because they have personal reasons or motivations that drive them to move in one form or another.