well in my own candid opinion, considering the factors listed above i would say number 6 fits in perfectly. You said you are still trying to recuperate and you are presently staying with your parents, I think it would be wise if you stay at home while your wife gets a job. Creating contents on steemit like you always do wont impose any stresss on you physically and your at liberty to do it at your own disposal without having anyone watching over your shoulder.
with that , you can as well look after your daughter. Infact number 6 just works perfectly but if you have some reservations you can let me know so we can review the options...
You are spot on. 6 just makes the most sense right now. so we have decided to go with that option for now. Glad you took the time to read through and give some input.