I would never get this kind of relationship.. too complicated. Feel like people like when they like and they don't when they don't . As simple as that.
Watch this.. the title 'Fling' doesn't sound so right to what your story told but the movie itself, just watch ;-);-)
@waybeyondpadthai, thanks for sharing your perspective. I totally understand that. There are most definitely people in the poly community who are operating off of lust and immediate satisfaction. That's most definitely NOT something I'm interested in. I like exploring depth in my relationships and I've always desired to have depth with more than just one person in the entire world. So poly provides a structure and space for that. Sometimes it takes years. Most of my relationships began as friendships then evolved from there. But yeah, just wanted to clarify what I mean by "polyamory".
I'm excited to watch this movie!