Wow! Firstly, it is so nice to read this from a fellow South African. Secondly, my condolences on your loss. As I still have both my parents, I cannot imagine your loss. Thirdly, I really needed to read this today. It's been an emotional trying time for me due to personal reasons I choose not to share publicly. Just know that your words have settled deep in this author's heart.
I will be following your posts closely.