paradigm shifts are hard to undrestand.. its not about not setting boundries.. and sometimes you can say NO.. but most parents use that word quite liberally, and with no respect or empathy for the child.. A child shoudl be treated with great honor and care, and that means taking time to listen, not talk.. To take the time to hear them.. sometimes that is enough and changes the whole dynamic..
glad ur watching the vid.. it is priceless! what a man@