I couldn't agree more with everything you wrote. Screen time is a huge treat at our house, not the norm. We do have ipads for travel entertainment, but that's the only time they're used. The Husband and I agreed that if and when the kids get phones they're going to be prepaid non-smartphones and the kids won't get them till they're around driving age (same reason you mentioned about it being good to have a phone for emergencies while driving).
I well remember the powerful allure of computer/video games when I was a kid. I also remember how like a drug they were...once we got playing we couldn't be torn away. We had none in our house (except Oregon Trail lol) but a handful of friends did. I have no intention of introducing those into the house either.
exactly @mntmeadowmomma, i'm really heartened to read your comment as i see soooo many kids these days on smartphones and i understand it's a dilemma for parents, but so surprising to me to see kids glued to the screens at lower and lower ages. i really like your plan for your kids. and totally agree, i remember how video games and tv was like a drug-- smart phones are the next level! thanks for stopping by!