I didn't want to overthink this one, know I'll second guess it as usual when I read everyone's brilliant posts, @eco-alex, but kinda think it's better to trust myself. Amazing how this really fits into the TSU one this week about order/chaos and systems theories - going on SO many tangents in my head, could easily write ten posts on this topic.
https://steempeak.com/@riverflows/havingchildrenintroubledtimesshouldwehavethematall-mv37mxuwwu