Yeah. It's been special this year. I mean so much good stuff too, but it's just been like some kind of slapstick movie where every time I get up, I get smacked by another 2x4. I can't catch my breath, and I'm realizing how much all this larger scale political and social stuff is absolutely devastating me. Then it connects into my life, esp around the stuff with my daughter and of course my crazy ex. I just feel exhausted. And I'm so mad about the realities of what the world is for women, girls, and all marginalized people.
I hope your decluttering has helped. It's so good for you! Especially getting rid of his stuff. You should have a big bonfire!