BECAUSE THIS IS MY LIFE, THAT’S WHY
Because I adore questioning everything. So here goes!
What if today you would stop apologising for living the life you want to live, the life that brings you joy and happiness? What if you stopped making apologies for showing up in your life and standing up for things you believe to be true to you? What if you stopped making excuses for people who are mistreating you and using you as an afterthought and said enough is enough? What if you said a firm no to something that feels wrong to you instead of saying yes just to be liked or please others? What if today you started believing in yourself and in your worth without the need for validation from people around you? What if?
You would realise people respect you for speaking your truth and the ones who don’t, won’t really matter. You would realise that self worth has nothing to do with others, it has to do with you and how you choose to see yourself. Changing the way you talk to you about yourself, shifting your inner dialogue into a loving one instead of judgemental one leads to a master shift within. It slowly turns self-hatred and insecurities into self love and security in who you are and what is important to you. What others think of you and your choices begin to matter less and less. And soon you will be free to fly, be who you choose to be. No explanations, no excuses.
I dare you to answer your “ what if’s?” today and stop explaining, apologising, asking for permission to follow your truth, being who you are. There will always be people who will dislike you and judge the decisions you make for you. And that is ok. Its your life to live, they have their own. There will also be people who will support, encourage and love you for who you are. Those are your people. Remember that at the end of the day peoples reactions rarely have much to do with you at all. It has to do with them. You are just a reflection of something for them that is causing the reaction. Don’t take it personally. Inner security and happiness has nothing to do with things outside of you. So they are off the hook. It’s your responsibility to be happy, no one else’s. Take ownership and responsibility for it, your decisions, life and happiness.
Slowly beginning to feel the power rising within? Power of being in control of your existence, your life?
Pretty amazing, isn’t it? ☺
