Look at the home of the drunkard. "" Notes the squalid, poverty, misery, the unspeakable calamity that is reigning there "" You look at the wife who was once happy, flee before her maniac husband. "" You listen to her prayers while the cruel blows fall on his shrunken body. "
Where are the sacred vows, the promises of love, the caresses and the strength to protect it? "they have melted like precious pearls in the brandy, the cup of abominations"
We can look at those half-naked and hungry children. They were once caressed tenderly. The storm was not allowed, the intense heat fried them, not the insults or scorn of others.
The care of the father and the tender love of the mother made their home a paradise. now everything has changed. Day after day the screams of agony uprooted from the lips of the wife and the children of the drunk go up to heaven.
"But the most terrible thing is when he enters the heart of the home, the women themselves get more and more the habit of drinking, and in many houses the children, even in their innocent and helpless childhood, are in danger because of carelessness. bad treatment and the infamy of drunken mothers.
"Sons and daughters are raised in the shadow of such a terrible evil, what perspective do they have left for the future except to sink even more than their parents?
In the home of an alcoholic, communication is often based on half-truths and small lies. These may come, not only from the alcoholic parent, but also from the other who needs or believes that he needs to protect the children from the truth related to the other alcoholic parent.
In a home for alcoholics, functions are distorted, disguised, usurped, synthesized, exaggerated and dramatized. The dignity of all members of this social unit is lost, personalities in the process of development are delayed and emotional responses are conditioned to aberrant forms unacceptable to society.
The image of the alcoholic father becomes in the eyes of his son that of a person without responsibility as a failure, not the important person of whom the child could be proud. Likewise, women can become so obsessed with their alcoholic husband and their problems that they can neglect their children.
The problem is even worse if the alcoholic is a woman, especially a housewife, because the father must bear the responsibility of maintaining the home and at the same time worry that they can not control their children during the day. Generally the older son assumes the role of mother with the unfortunate position of making his mother from his own mother and that she will cease to be an authority for her children who can challenge her
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