We spend most of our lives looking for someone who loves us, someone who approves us and helps us fill those gaps and shortcomings that we drag from childhood. Most of our failures and unhappiness come from the fact that we expect other people to come to us to give us the happiness that we lack and in a selfish way we demand that it be so, but if you fail, the pain is so intense and disappointment so great that we fall on them with guilt that they really do not have because they can not give us what we ourselves do not offer ourselves.
We can never be happy in any aspect of our lives if we do not love ourselves, and in turn no one can love if you do not love, or at least not healthy.
We should not expect someone to validate our existence or buy that myth that we are one half of an orange in search of its other half because it really is not like that, we are a whole person capable of doing everything we set out to do and be happy ourselves.
When you understand how valuable you are, and how beautiful you are when you love yourself, you will open a thousand doors to happiness because mysteriously people are attracted to those authentic beings who radiate happiness and well-being.
Complacete and identify your shortcomings work on them to heal them filled with love to yourself and stand in front of a mirror and see how beautiful you are by the simple fact of being yourself and do everything possible to become the woman of your dreams.
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