Well, I would say God has a purpose for everything. For reasons best known to you both, you broke up with the relationship only to discover he has been having an affair with your gf. Congrats the relationship didnt lead anywhere. Else you would have been sharing your man with your supposed gf who could poison you and take over. Though the relationship is over with your ex, pls cut ties with your back stabbing girlfriend.
For the one in a relationship for four years, no proposal, is she smart at all? Let God not let me be in a relationship with someone for two years without proposal o. Two years too much sef. He cant be shining congo at will and not make his intentions known na. Who gives that?? Pls now that the lady managed to play dumb for four years, please let her give the guy ultimatum. If at the expiration of the set time, still no intentiond made known by way of proposal, o girl waka. At worse, get a back up. Hahaha, did i just say that?
Hahahaha mama your advise for the first anonymous got me laughing. thank you so much @adoore-eu