Anonymous 1:
The guy might not be ready to hook up with the girl due to some reasons probably he's not yet ready or he isn't financially okay yet. The lady needs to sit him down and seek for his opinion and if he's not ready to get married in the nearest future them she can walk out of the relationship, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. I wouldn't advise her to start dating the other guy cause she nearly knows him and a guy can't be predicted you don't know what his up to.
The best thing is to give her boyfriend an ultimatum, and if it lapses without ant improvement that means he's not yet ready.
Anonymous 2:
The person doesn't need to confront her girlfriend since they've been dating even when she was still in a relationship with her ex. A proverb says what goes around will surely come around. So it's plainly written that the same thing is gonna happen to her
All the lady needs to do is sit back and watch the outcome of her girlfriend.
You are so right dear. What goes around surely comes around. Such a wise advice