This is one definition of aggression:
forceful and sometimes overly assertive pursuit of one's aims and interests.
By this definition you can't have consensual aggression but there's many definition possible to each and every words. That's why we need prior agreement or contract to avoid those kind of dispute.
Rules lawyers KNOW what the words mean, they try to twist them to mean something else.
If there is as contract, the rules lawyers will just confuse what "it' is...is there any "there" there?
Reasonable people can disagree on the meaning of words...
Words mean things. If you control the definition of words, you control the narrative. Hijack as many words as you can. Stockpile them.