“The best portion of a good man’s life, - his little nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love.” (William Wordsworth)
Your words can either Made a person or Mar them, So choose your words wisely.
A lot of people are going through a lot in their daily lives already, and the last thing they need is someone saying a bad word into their lives, and the last thing you also need need is someone remembering you as that person that ruined their lives, career, or self esteem with harsh words.
I know there is always a room for criticism, but there's different between constructive criticism and destructive criticism, For example, You can tell someone to look into his tenses rather than telling him, he wrote a disaster. Let's correct people with love. Remember, ' Rome wasn't built in a day'.
The source and center of all man’s creative power is his power of making images, or the power of imagination.” (Robert Collier)
To everyone out there, Thinking and saying positive words brings about positive happenings. Over the years, I have learnt that, Whenever i think about the negative happenings in my life, more negative things happens, like feeling depressed, feeling discourage or the feeling of ' I can't do this anymore '. But whenever I think about my happy moments, relive it in my heart, I tends to be happier, think positively, and also works towards having that happy moments again and again.
It also helps to brings out that new energy I don't know i have within me before and that gives me more inspirations to do more in my endeavours.
So, let's think positively, and say positive words into our lives
Yes, we all feel depressed at times, but you know what? Tell that depression that you are stronger than it. So, how do you do that?
Sit, think, and write about the situation that's making you depressed, read it over and over, see the meaningless in it and ask yourself If such situation should make you cry, when you have passed through something bigger before, when there are thousands of people feeling something worse compared to yours.
Remind yourself that you have a long way to go, and no situation is capable of holding you down until you reach there ( succeed).
Did someone pissed you off ? I know you will feel pained, angry and all but did you also noticed that you have high level of energy whenever you are angry ? If yes, Use that energy for something positive, No, I won't say eat a bowl of ice-cream. I would rather say, get on with your chores, yes, all those pending ones, clean and rearrange your home, or go through all those bookmarked pages on your phone, there's always something positive to learn. And you can as well as bring out your pending To-do list and get it done with. By the end of the day, you will have a big smile on your face, and have a very sound sleep 😁
To everyone reading this, I want you to know that, that situation is just a phase, yes we hurt, we cry, and we go through so much pain that we wish not to be here.
Remember that God created us in HIS image and we are powerful beyond measure.
Ask yourself why HE gave you all those good attributes, and you will see that God loves you
Become a totally positive person, so that people like you and want to be around you and help you. Think and talk only about the things you want, and refuse to think or talk about the things you don’t want.
Positive words lead to positive attitudes, it is true! At least in moderation. I can't be positive all 100% of the time.
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