Quite a Father's Secret
The pain was the impact of superiors, the commotion that occurred with coworkers, slander from colleagues, or just a small friction between partners that sometimes caused emotional spark. Not a few fathers who stutter to start the word, choose the language to be able to convey it calmly. The problem he experienced was on the road, about the motorbike that was touching another vehicle, the heat was blazing to the top of the head, it was jammed by the highway to dry the throat. Not to mention the train strike for hours. So that delaying the time to arrive home, until the plan to play with children who had fallen asleep, the default martabak was no longer warm, even all the events in the office, on the road, on the train, on the bus, cold follow-up to tell. Dad, he often keeps all the stories himself. Some of my father did intend to tell his wife when he got home. Some of the others just had to send a short message, "Mom, Daddy wants a story ..." but for a long time the wife replied. Over time, I forget, and no longer have the spirit to tell stories. It might be that his wife was busy with iron stacks. Some fathers, it was intentionally not intending to say anything as bad as what happened to him in the office, on the road or anywhere. No, not because he doesn't trust his wife, but because he just wants to always bring positive news home. Not infrequently he stopped first at the coffee shop before at home, others chose to shed his complaints in the mosque near the house, not to delay going home, but to calm his mind, so as not to overflow emotions at home. Anyway, some fathers often rub or smooth the structure of their faces before knocking on the door, so that only cheerful faces are welcomed by their wives and children. There were those whose wives were able to grasp the secret behind her husband's smile, "Brother, how come it is moody, I tell you ..." flashed all the fights on the road due to motorbike rubbing, also the boss's abuse at the office, but it was answered with a smile that was sometimes forced, "not really , nothing ... "while muttering, let it be Dad's secret.
There are also those whose wives are not sensitive. Starting from a brief message that was forgotten to answer, until her husband had to call, "have you read BBM BBM?" Certainly not yet, "Yes, never mind, it's okay ..." again, it finally remained my father's secret. In fact, the father wants to tell about the flick of another woman who just made a scene. Intentionally want the story so as not to be a secret, so that his wife continues to fortify him. Some fathers are conscious enough to hold back, a little patiently waiting for their turn to tell stories. Because, once at home he has been strafed with various stories that are not less exciting. About thinning shopping money, electricity pulses that are already nut nut nut, school fees for children who have to be repaid, installments of outstanding homes, debts to stalls at the end of the alley, or exciting stories of children in their schools ... when's the turn Father? Another father, so eager to get home because he knew his wife was always happy to be invited to talk about anything, to the trivial matter of the kind of sandals that often moved under the desk of his colleagues. Uh, when I got home, her beautiful wife was asleep in front of the television, she couldn't bear to wake her from a dream after watching a Korean drama. Some wives, maybe not smart enough to provide their hearts and ears to accommodate all the stories of the husband. Others, maybe not ready to prepare to balance and give advice, input on all her husband's problems. Thankfully, there is still the final sentence, "Patience, yeah ..." while wiping your shoulders, or kissing intently. Indeed, some of the problems seem to be resolved - at least they can be forgotten ... More than that, some of my father kept everything that was not necessary to burden his wife's mind. He knows very well, the role of the wife at home is no less complicated. Do not want him to add it, even though his wife is sincere. All bills that must be paid, which need to be purchased, which must be completed are answered in one sentence, "Calm down, Daddy will take care of everything ..." "Everything is OK!" , even though the debt yesterday was not paid off. This also often becomes Dad's secret. Unfortunately, some fathers choose shortcuts, take the rights of others, manipulate the office budget, to solve all the problems. In fact, the problem was never finished, it actually increased.
In the middle of the night, there were some fathers who complained of all their complaints, all the problems that were never a secret to the Universal Owner. For him, the sky is the best place to keep secrets.
Father, often considered a mysterious, unpredictable figure. He keeps many mysteries in his life, not a few things that his wife and children don't know yet. Some of my father's secrets were even opened on the day he closed his eyes forever, some other secrets were buried along with his body. And it remains Dad's secret.
Daddy is daddy, it's always like that ... 😊