"Do not Be Easy to Build Prejudices"
It is the custom of every parent, grandparents, aunts and aunts to prepare new coins to distribute to children, grandchildren, nieces and neighbors.
without being asked on Idul fitri, the parents will soon give a gift in the form of money just big enough to buy ice kepel to the children, as a form of joy to welcome the feast
angpau it sometimes a form of appreciation to the child or grandchild who is still small, can run fast until complete, sehinggal worthy given the prize in the form of money.
if excessive fortune the parents are willing to exchange a lot of money with new money in order to give the impression of being special, this is a tradition that has been attached to decades.
so to be understood, the traditions for the money in the feast day is the spirit of giving from parents to children instead of children instead of begging like a beggar to the elderly.
it is very lebay if suddenly the tradition for the money is said as a form of teaching the child a mental beggar, a writing on the FB is viral, the title is very bombatis DO NOT SEE YOUR CHILDREN SO PACKING IN THE DAY IED FITRI.
the author builds the narrative at the beginning of the writing without valid data, as if accusing the many parents bermental beggar:
"Look at Om come in. Salim there to get the money"
"Let's go to a friend's house father, he's rich, if there's going to be given"
I do not think there are any parents like that, teach children to be beggars in the festivities, especially for the money that only happens in the immediate family environment, it only happens once a year (remember that is discussed here in the context of the holiday, outside the holiday .. !!!)
imaginary writers are wildly wild, until to the heart of writing like this, at the end of writing, the authors make this inconsequential conclusion
"How unfortunate you are, son.
If what your parents teach is mentally weak people "
"The begging mentality that is actually in Islam is strictly prohibited."
"Elevate your degree by not teaching your little one to grandmother, grandfather, om, aunt, uncle, uwa, etc., etc., etc. on a nan holy day.
Wallahu a'lam "
What ??? "children are taught their masters to beg for fitri days?
Try to think of different ways, the parents on day fitri are giving examples of the spirit of sharing to the children also to the neighbors. So the child can imitate the spirit of sharing from his parents.
the spirit of sharing is done in the family gathering, something that is difficult to do in addition to the holiday, in a happy atmosphere.
try to change your point of view to be positive to the tradition, when your child is given money by the family instead of being rejected, because it is not good to refuse the giving of people especially from the family, still accepted as we say to the child.
"Well, thank you yes, later when you grow up you should imitate the father / grandfather / grandmother to share the fortune to others".
once again, there is no parent who teaches his child to be a mentally beggar, especially on the day fitri, there are children and also parents who deliberately come to a neighbor's house is capable, to hospitality just enjoy a special meal because at home may not exist, then sirthe house welcomes cheerfully and distributes money.Well it is not a beggar's mentality of wisdom ramadhan be the giver and children who are less able to participate in celebrating the joy of people who can afford, do not in general they are bermental mentors.
for-money on the day of fitri will not cause children to be beggars or bermental beggars, even if you've heard, see and even experience themselves told or taught to ask money on the day of Eid by your parents at a time when small, to the grandparents-uncle -auntI think it's just an expression of joy, amidst the family relationship, expressed with a joking sentence rather than as serious as a beggar begging by spreading his hand.
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