Apa yang kita lihat bagus pada orang lain, belum tentu bagus bagi kita
Apa yang kita lihat enak pada orang lain, belum tentu enak bagi kita
Nyaman buat orang lain belum tentu nyaman buat kita
Belum tentu orang lain hidupnya lebih senang dari kita, itu semua hanya antara dia memilih mengeluh atau tidak
Enak seperti mahkota, ia selalu terlihat megah dikepala orang lain dan tak pernah singgah dikepala kita
Tidak enak itu karena cara pandang kita yang salah tentang nikmatNya, sebenarnya semuanya nikmat.
Tidak enak itu karena kita fokus melihat masalah tapi tidak jeli melihat peluang
Bukankah jika kita fokus melihat tahi lalat yang berada pada isteri kita, maka ia akan terlihat buruk, namun jika kita melihat secara menyeluruh, jangan jangan tahi lalat itu yg membuat isteri kita itu cantik dan mempesona.
Enak itu seperti nikmat sehat yang kita tidak melihatnya kecuali jika kita terbaring sakit, disebutkan dalam sebuah syair : "Kesehatan adalah mahkota, tidak ada yang melihatnya kecuali mereka yang sakit "
Semoga kita menjadi lebih baik dan lebih bermanfaat.
In english
What we see good in others, not necessarily good for us What we see nice to others
not necessarily comfortable for us Comfortable for others is not necessarily comfortable for us Not necessarily someone else's life more pleased than us,
it's all just between he chooses to complain or not like a crown, he always looks magnificent in the heads of others and never drop by our heads Discomfort is because of our wrong perspective about His favors,
in fact everything is delicious. It's bad because we focus on seeing the problem but are not keen to see the odds. If we focus on seeing the mole on our wife, then it will look bad, but if we look at it thoroughly, do not let that mole make our wife beautiful and fascinating.
Delicious is like a healthy favors that we do not see it unless we lay sick, mentioned in a poem: "Health is the crown, nobody sees it except those who are sick" May we be better and more useful.
selfesteem
By @faizahmerdu
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