My dear sometimes we are not in a rush intentional.
Sometimes the enviroment has a way of putting us under pressure
Pressure from family...saying....you have graduated from school...and you haven't find a job.....or you not earning much it's time to take care of us and your sibling....
My head usually burst when that statement comes from these.....they pushing one so hard...if you made a mistake while rushing ....they will be the same people to criticise you
Such is life my friend.