You deserve someone who is completely obsessed with you, someone that will put random notes among the pages of the book because He knew it would make you smile. Call you at midnight and in the morning just to tell you that he just wants to hear your sweet voice. He engaged in 3 hours journey to see you for an hour because He misses you.
Not every lady values this. In fact, these days, do this and i'd almost assure you they'd leave. People really don't value what they have till it's lost.