Take Lessons From Any Failure and Your Misfortune Rather than thinking of pain, sadness, disappointment, and a sense of helplessness from your condition, it would be better to think of the wisdom of each of your failures and your misfortunes. It's much more meaningful, much more useful, and will be your provision for better conditions. Ask, "What is the wisdom of this condition that I can use as a lesson for better conditions?" The wisdom is always positive, the wisdom always moves you, the wisdom always makes you better. If there are flashes of thought that lead you to stop, it is not a wisdom, but a temptation to give up. For that, consider the question that I design above. Do not just ask what the wisdom but ask the right questions that empower as above.
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