When you come to the restaurant and order something you want, the Chef prepares it and the waiter presents it to you. You ordered it, but did not process it yourself. Either way the chef or spiritual energy makes it, you first choose to have it presented to you. It will not be presented to you if you do not first go to the restaurant and order it. So you are responsible and paid for it.
Likewise life, he is like a restaurant. Learn how to order what you want from life like you do in a restaurant and then believe that, because you order it, it will happen in front of you. When you enter the restaurant, you are not worried about any menu and / or feel anxious whether you deserve it. Well sometimes there are also like that. Sometimes you say, "Oh, I do not deserve this. It costs fifteen dollars. I can only order something that costs seven dollars or less. "
The way you act in restaurants can be a clue how you act in life. This is a wonderful lesson you need to understand. When you go to the restaurant do you order and say "Here's what I want", and believe that you will receive what you ordered or are you worried they mistakenly presented your order? As soon as you order, do you follow the waitress into the kitchen and say, "Oh who knows they do not use the right lettuce. They may not sauté the onions the right way, and do not have mushrooms the way you want and you just believe it. When the order is presented in front of you, you say "Thank you", if it turns out your order is not so fitting, you can ask what else is needed and continue other things.