dear steemin friend to day i want to share with you.Have you had a broken radio or "radio crash" that sometimes sounds and sometimes suddenly dead, what do you usually do?
This question is often asked by participants of our interactive dialogue.
The collected answers are almost identical, that is, everyone will be banging on the "stuck" radio until the sound returns.
The problem is if it is what we do continuously, whether the radio is getting better or better day on the contrary.
If the radio is dead then usually the radio was taken to the repairman to look for the disease and repaired.
Why are we banging on our radio to make a sound again ..? there are several reasons why people do almost the same thing for their damaged radio;
1. Do not know the cause of the damage. 2. Want an easy and fast way 3. Carried emotions and feel annoyed because it happens repeatedly 4. Do not want to bother looking for the cause of the problem and find a solution.
Unconsciously many parents who have treated their children like "Radio Ngadat". And after the child can not be repaired again then sent him to the shelters and coaching teenagers troubled or even to dock in Penitentiary. Hopefully this will not happen to us and more children.
The underlying reason is similar;
Most parents do not know why their children behave like this or that
Every parent wants a quick and easy way to overcome the behavior of the child who is considered "strange" it
Most parents do it because of a sense of emotion and anger.
Not many parents are willing to bother learning to find a problem and get the solution.
Likewise with our children, parents often beat their children who are deemed to be "crashing" either with harsh words or by using the hand (physically). Most parents are more likely to choose an easy and quick way to resolve conflicts with their children by violence either words or physical. As well as broken radio, this initially will react "as if our children are getting better", but over time this will foster a psychiatric pressure for the child that will lead to the form of child resistance against parents.
How to gloat the children if we parents continue to treat them like broken radios. Imagine if this way continuously done on our children will be like what their future will be ..?
Our child is a manifestation of the love of both parents. Our son is a priceless gem and unequaled, our son is a divine entity we have to care for with all love and affection.
How can we be if we treat it like a worthless thing and ready to be thrown into a warehouse or thrown into a trash can.
O parents let us learn how to manage our children properly in a beautiful and elegant way. So it does not happen again the broken radio phenomenon that during this time we met many homes.
