The best way to make yourself happy is to make others happy (but not everyone). When you make others happy, you will feel "useful" and these feelings will make you spiritually rich. Share it with others, whatever it is you can share, give it and do not expect it back, even just giving your time to listen to a friend / friend is a gift that is very, very meaningful.
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