Myanmar Women Part (6)

Village or ward elder and relatives also are present at the engagement ceremony. At such a ceremony, girl's parents are used to say that they want inquiry into their daughters's wish. Mother or the elder sister of the girl asks for the girl's consent. If the girl says yes, wedding date has been chosen at that engagement ceremony. They discuss in detail how to hold the wedding ceremony.

ေစ့စပ္ေၾကာင္းလမ္းေသာ အခမ္းအနားသို႔ ရပ္ရြာလူႀကီးမ်ားႏွင့္ ေဆြမ်ိဳးမ်ားလည္းလာေရာက္ၾကသည္။ ထိုသို႔ ေစ့စပ္ေၾကာင္းလမ္းလာေသာအခါ သမီး႐ွင္မိဘမ်ားက မိမိတို႔သမီး၏ စိတ္ဆႏၵကို ေမးျမန္းပါရေစ စသည္ျဖင့္ေျပာတတ္ၾကသည္။ မိခင္ၾက္ီးသို႔မဟုတ္ အစ္မျဖစ္သူက မိန္းကေလး၏ ဆႏၵကိုေမး၏။ မိန္းကေလးက သေဘာတူပါက ေစ့စပ္ေၾကာင္းလမ္းမႈ အခမ္းအနား၌ပင္ မဂၤလာေဆာင္မည့္ရက္ကို ေရြးၾကသည္။ မဂၤလာေဆာင္ပါက ဧည့္သည္မ်ားကို ဘာေကြၽးမည္ ၊ မည္သို႔မည္ပုံ မဂၤလာေဆာင္ၾကမည္ကိုလည္း ေျပာဆိုတတ္ၾကသည္။
Myanmar girls generally choose the fellow villagers to be her husband. If they choose to get married to boys from distant village or region, their parents and fellow villagers will not agree to her choice. So, it is unacceptable to be a wife of a foreigner. Those who get married to foreigners are despised by others.
ျမန္မာအမ်ိဳးသမီးမ်ားသည္ မိမိရပ္ရြာ တစ္ရြာတည္းေနသူမ်ားကိုသာ ဦးစားေပး၍ ခင္ပြန္းေရြးခ်ယ္ၾကသည္။ တစ္ရပ္တစ္ေက်း တစ္ရြာသားကို လက္ထပ္ပါက မိဘမ်ားေရာ ရပ္ရြာကပါ မႏွစ္သက္ၾက။ ထို႔ေၾကာင့္ ျမန္မာအမ်ိဳးသမီးမ်ားသည္ လူမ်ိဳးျခားႏွင့္ လက္ထပ္ျခင္းကို လက္မခံၾကေပ။ လူမ်ိဳးျခားႏွင့္လက္ထပ္သူမ်ားအား အမ်ိဳးကို မေစာင့္ေ႐ွာက္သူမ်ားဟု ေခၚၾကသည္။
SMT-76

Congratulations! This post has been upvoted from the communal account, @minnowsupport, by win zaw htet from the Minnow Support Project. It's a witness project run by aggroed, ausbitbank, teamsteem, theprophet0, someguy123, neoxian, followbtcnews, and netuoso. The goal is to help Steemit grow by supporting Minnows. Please find us at the Peace, Abundance, and Liberty Network (PALnet) Discord Channel. It's a completely public and open space to all members of the Steemit community who voluntarily choose to be there.

If you would like to delegate to the Minnow Support Project you can do so by clicking on the following links: 50SP, 100SP, 250SP, 500SP, 1000SP, 5000SP.
Be sure to leave at least 50SP undelegated on your account.