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in #eteem7 years ago (edited)

We think with the child, sustenance will think with us

Ever we do not think? the elderly are competent when there are children ni cheap sustenance. But other so our kat, the child was busy but the sustenance is still the same kind of childless period.
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Your own experience.

Alhamdulillah after the annur rania born sustenance I easily je in. Sometimes unexpected sustenance can. Can offer work at home. Though I never even thought I can be because the crowd is very candidate that temuduga.

The long term stop of salary in the month tu is resistant because it stops not enough notis. It's hard to survive tu month with the existing commitment but alhamdulillah all triumph in harungi. Sustenance is je to pay all.

Everything changes when I am different.

In the new place of work increased, sometimes back to home at 9-10 pm. Less time with family and children. Little by little the money is not enough.

If the money is not enough to begin with the child. Toys rm5 did not buy. Be able to let the child cry with tears. out to pray a lot.

At first blame a small salary if the appeal with the salary first. But actually the farther we ignore the child the further the sustenance will bai bai us.

Children are the grace of each man's father's title. They are God's trust to us. They are the future of our generation.

It is our responsibility to raise them up to be a child faithful to the state and religion.

I do not spoil the child just I never thought with the child.

These 8 practices I picked sustenance through the child:

  1. Childhood abstinence seems toy. Once a month give them rewards toys that they have. While being able to give them their favorite items. What a toy rm5-rm10 as long as they are happy. Remember if they are happy we as father father also happy, same if not otherwise. When the family happy new sustenance easy nak come.

  2. Give them the best lesson. Do not select the task because of the way to the workplace. Think about children's need to learn. Many tasks are only open for the duration of study. A good taska is full of activities that foster children's brain development.

  3. Spend time with the children at least once a week. 6 days each busy with different affairs, what words a day a week for something together. An example of a road in a zoo or a child brawler to a learning center. Many centers of learning centers in malaysia are good for their development.

  4. Provide the best for them. Do not recycle it. What is the feeling of the sister who only recycle barangan brother and sister. Example of buying their favorite clothes. Must love affection tu increase.

  5. Many early childhood learning methods that help the development of a child's brain already exist. Spread a bit for their future. Do you know 90% of childhood brain develop at the age of 0-6 years? All the critical parts of the brain are developing this time.

  6. Concerned about the attitude change of children. Do not always think they will find their own way instead of helping them while they can be helped. Believe that childhood can not be 1-6 years subject to STRESS? Once they are stressed and we do not help their emotions get stuck and may be serious.

  7. Do not upset the child without thinking long. When the nak angry tu force themselves silent or drink water and wuduk. Better to keep silent from anger and out of words. This time the children are still learning and they will follow your way even when the time is angry. If they are good, then they are good.

  8. Every child has different development. Understand and try to help them. Give the necessary necessities not what we want. Stop from comparing with other children.

Alhamdulillah after I practically 8 amalan on sustenance pouring in. One by one debt can be exhausted. Bisnes was growing so that wages 5 staff.

Sustenance is the determination and unnatural we feel in doubt with the sustenance needed to raise our zuriate.

"And do not kill your children for fear of poverty. We are the ones who give sustenance to them and to you. Verily the act of killing them is one great error. "(Surah al-Isra ', verse 31)

Nak sustenance sprinkling bulk bullying first love affection child wife. Only sustenance came to pour out.
Can not believe it? try to give birth to a wife, today suprise them with a gift that they craved for ni. See what the outcome.

Do not blame me when the overflowing sustenance is unceasing.

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