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yes I entered the password, and it seemed complete so I thought I could close (it was like confirming and I figured it wouldn't confirm until it actually happens), but now I'm not so sure that clicking close was OK... do you/other people normally click close? thanks for the very quick reply!

There really isn't a "normally" on anything... it's all very new to everyone. You need Parity up and running during the launch of the ICO if you want it to know when to send the transaction.

well basically when I view in "txqueueviewer", it says on the left resubmit, but on the right it says "in queue pending" ... I really don't know whether to click resubmit or not lol

I'd transfer everything except what you're sending to a different wallet, then resubmit. Can't hurt you by double sending then

I don't think that makes much sense, when I could cancel transaction now :) it should be fine, it's all under the "signer" page

oooh when I look under the "signer" tab, the transaction is all there (has an edit and cancel option even), so I think I should be fine xD could have saved the trouble for you if I just clicked around like I was going mad