Everyone has a sad story to tell but believe me, none is as sad as being caught in the CROSSFIRE of a divorce.People believe the biggest loser of a divorce is the man who loses half of his wealth. Others believe its the woman who has to piece her emotions back together again, but in reality, its the children who lose a part of their childhood, some even experience their first heart break before their heart knows how to truly love and as a result we see an increase in youths with delinquent tendencies.
Don't get me wrong, so many children have come out fine even though they had to witness gory divorce stories. After all, the performance of an offspring largely depends on the genes and environment. But make no mistake, its more of environment than the genetics involved.
We have various kinds of divorce ranging from Contested divorce, At-fault divorce to divorce such as Summary divorce, No-fault divorce, Uncontested divorce ( en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Divorce)
The aim of this my write up is not to encourage divorce but to discourage it, hence I wont bother on any explanation of the above listed types of divorce.
People divorce for many reasons ranging from misunderstandings,infidelity to silly things such as claiming divorce settlements.
Divorce in my opinion is common in cases where people mostly concentrate on celebrating the wedding and not taking time to understand the union itself.
My other opinion as to why divorce is recklessly on the increase is due to the fact that the act is now celebrated as a norm and is considered as a suitable way out of marriage turbulence. For example, when we look at celebrities who celebrate being divorced like an accomplishment, we need not wonder why some marriages crash because like a popular African saying goes "the horse at the front leads the one behind".
Some instances require divorce like a repetitive cheating spouse or a spouse who is a threat to life but before thinking about how to divorce, think of how to reconcile. Love is like fruits, we plant what we want to grow.
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