Hello, my dear friends!
Some days ago I finished reading a book about children and their education by Y. Korchak. It was very interesting and useful for my teacher’s work at the kindergarten and my work at home as mother for my lovely daughter.
I have allocated some rules for myself. Here they are.
- Don’t expect that your child will be like you or whatever you want. Help him/her to become not you, but himselfself/herself.
- Don’t ask the child to pay for everything you did for him. You gave him some very important – his life, how can he repay you?
- Don’t take offense on your child to not regret in the old age about it. As says in the proverb, you reap what you sow.
- Don’t take his problems down. Life is as hard for him as for you, even more. You child has no experience and instructions for life.
- Never humiliate your child!
- Don’t forget that the most important meetings are meetings with children. Pay more attention to them.
- Don’t torture yourself, if you cannot do something for your child, just remember: it hasn’t done enough for child, if nothing is done.
- Your child isn’t a tyrant who takes over your whole life. It is the most important thing in your life. You must do everything to develop your child.
- Be able to love someone else's child. Never do to other child that you didn’t want to do to yours.
- Love your child by anyone - non-talented, unsuccessful or when he’ll grow up. When you communicate with your child – enjoy it, because it is a holiday when your child is still with you!
good morning...I have a 16 year old son and a 6 year old girl from small ones let them choose the simplest things without oppression and surely what a child wants that age and if it is a support and a lot of love the effect will look when they are big and have found their strokes alone...
I agree with your views and as a teacher you know better things to have a great day and to greet your little girl!!!
Thank you) I agree with your opinion and think that every mother knows better what is good for her child)
The way parents grow up their children shapes their personality, character, and create a strong effect.
A child's character is created from the age of 4 or 5 years.
So, every one of us has to pay attention to the above-mentioned rules.Very interesting information, thanks for sharing them @gritata.
I also think so and agree with you!)
Guide the child, show him the way but let him choose his/her path. At least that's what my parents did, and we all turned out okay - we're closer than ever as a family
Thank you for commenting! I'm glad that you have nice ralationship with your parents)
Hey @gritata, great post! I enjoyed your content. Keep up the good work! It's always nice to see good content here on Steemit!
Thank you:)
Unfortunately, many parents think it is difficult for them to deal with their children, but in fact they are just steps that should be applied to their children out of love and understanding.
I agree with you!) Thank you for commenting
They are so cute! :)
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