A simple path to happiness

in #family7 years ago (edited)

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From 7 billion population of world ,I don't think anyone is there who don't want to be happy .May it be rich or poor everyone's ultlimate goal is to be happy .We do many things in the span of life like get engaged in relationships,work hard to make more and more money so than we can live a luxury life and be happy.

But still most of us are not .Life is full of stress ,workload,and many other things leading us to cave of depression.we all are getting restless to come out of it.Poor is fighting to become rich so that they can live a happy life ,rich wants to become more rich and this go on.motorbike owner thinks car will bring happiness ,car owner thinks super car will bring happiness,supercar owner go for private jet.

But still something is missing ? guess what money bring luxury not happiness .So where is happiness????????????????
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I guess have a answer .May be everyone would not agree but some will surely agree.
Happiness is right beside you ,you are killing it by your ego ,loads of expection,demands,and dissatisfaction.
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Sad about your fathers behaviour today think about the stress he handled today at work .Mom said No for new phone think about how stressed she is because this month money is short in budget .Lover hasn't called whole day think how busy he/she is that after knowing that u will be hurt he/she was unable to call.Boss is devil even after your that much hard work try smiling and showing no effect on your mood and greet him with respect.Friend is busy in his/her life and forgot you think about his point of view that he/she is happy without you ,they also want that old life back with you.Had a fight with your buddy and angry with him/her try cooling your mind and talking you will find a misunderstanding in between.

My whole point is people bring happiness not luxury.
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So stay close to the peoples who love you, respect you ,understand you.
And NEVER i repeat never leave them.Think once when was you happy last time when you was in a car alone or was in metro with your friends,when you was eating in five star hotel or when was eating in restaurant with your family.What makes you happy coffee of starbucks or tea made by your mother.mother-and-daughter-pouring-tea-in-living-room-e1bg69.jpg
Stop running for wealth and luxury .Sit take a deep breath and let go the expectation of more attention ,more wealth,more luxury and whatever is stopping you to reach happiness.Go hug your mother if can't call her tell her u love her I bet you would be happy.Call your lover and say you can understand their problem.Visit your friends kick their ass for not being in touch and order pizza and can't do a confrence call and express how much you missed them.Call your best buddy and say sorry for the last fight even if it was not your mistake see the result will be very much positive.Greet your boss with more respect,energy and smile everyday,you will see a positive change.Tell your dad you are satisfied with the facilities he gave you and you don't need anything else.
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Try seeing positive sides of situation and ignore negativity.Stop getting effectted this soon.Try to behave mature and see the other part of the story and than react .You will have a great change in your life .

That was all from my side now if u liked please follow and upvote.

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nice post but i believe without money you can't b happy,. u can't have a girlfriend,. u can't have luxuries of life and eventually u cant have happiness..

I respect your belief but believe me if its about the right girl money doesn't matter at all thats my personal experiance and according to me luxury bring comfort .Their is big difference between comfort and happiness.
But opinons differs according to experiance

Well, really, we have everything we need to be happy with us, but we ignore and figure out after losing someone dear ... that's life!

totally agree we always have choice but we always seek for what we don't have and ignore what's there.

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