What a real man is!

in #family7 years ago

SIGNS OF IMMATURITY IN MARRIAGE FOR MEN:

  1. Rejecting food when there's an issue:
    Mr husband, you gave your wife money for
    food and after it was prepared you refused
    to eat because you are angry. It's one of the greatest signs of immaturity, it's time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason. You could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you don't allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on even though some women can be really troublesome.

  2. Telling your wife severally that you are the head:
    May I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/ disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Or do we need to get you a slot on CNN? It's important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however don't become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head.

  3. Issuing threats:
    beating, verbally abusing
    your wife, issuing threats of divorce or
    bragging about marrying another wife does
    not make you a man. An EMPTY barrel makes the loudest noise. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her "childish woman" part, play the "matured man."

  4. Reporting your wife to friends and family:
    When your wife offends you, correct
    and talk things through. You don't have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back.
    By the way, are you a reporter answer the question ?

  5. Keeping malice:
    is it not funny to know that some men keep malice? Some of them even nag, criticise, abuse and call their wives names in public. It may make you look like a "big boy" who's in control but you are not going to gain anything good from it, your home will only be a den of insults and confrontations.

  6. Not helping with house chores:
    I must say here that it is the sole responsibility of a woman to tend and manage a home.
    However, it's not a bad thing if a man lends a helping hand when necessary. Watching football with newspaper in your hand every evening, not caring how stressful the house chores are will only increase the pressure on your wife and if you truly care you'll help, just checking on her while busy could encourage and sooth her, this also makes you a good example to the kids especially the boys. Some men don't even say "thank You" to their wives after eating, all they do is compare her with other women. It's a shame that after having 3-4 kids some
    men cannot change a simple diaper or
    prepare cereal meals; a big shame.

The point?
A REAL man is a pillar of support to his wife, not a hole of depressionIMG-20170914-WA0018.jpeg

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wow "signs of immaturity" or just plain stupid, arrogant, and self centered. Why would any woman have to tell her husband these things...my advice...run away as fast as you can