Being a mother and father in a context of changes

With women leaving for the job market, much has changed. It is not known to what extent the family gained from this change, especially the children, who came to have a totally different background from a few years ago when the woman was even the "housewife," also known as "the queen of the home ".
The family is the basis for the formation of people's character. At any time, situation and culture, it has always been of fundamental importance for individuals to find their balance and define their roles within society. The way a person behaves, their attitudes, and the way they relate to others depends directly on the family environment in which they were created. Over the years, however, the family has been changing, or rather the people who are part of it have been playing roles different from those our parents played when they created us.

Teamwork

 The time devoted entirely to the administration of the home and the upbringing of the children was greatly reduced, with little readiness for the much-needed dialogue. At this point, too, the father should be more present in the current conjuncture, sharing with the mother the complex task of guiding his children. Even more so in the world today, when young people suffer so many appeals from the media and consumer society and dressmaker in which they live.

The role of the woman as mother continues the same, of orientation and of raising her children. But to this are added so many others from their professional position. In order to be able to account for so many tasks and to keep up with this change of role within society, it is necessary for their peers (and their male children) to develop tasks and understand the importance of teamwork (by all Components of the family, of course).

Men of today can not expect women to behave like their mothers in relationship to their parents. Women, in turn, can not raise their children (especially men) as their mothers did. The children, who now no longer have maternal care 24 hours a day, should prepare for a more independent life, learning to turn around early, even if, if they have sisters, also modern women.!
This paradigm shift is not easy for either parent, but with good will and willingness one can find the right way to live according to the new demands. Much has changed, but much still needs to change. Some men (parents and children) have already understood that it is necessary to cooperate with household chores, but most of them still do not understand or even carry with them the old idea that only women compete for these tasks and care for their children.

Different education

 Over the years this situation must change and a large number of the masculine leave the machismo aside and collaborate significantly with their female partners and their mothers. Women can also collaborate to the extent that they begin to educate their male children differently and not perpetuate quite old convictions such as those we have seen previously. They can not accept what is still happening on a large scale today, when they have a double working day.

 And should not men, by any chance, also own their homes and feel equally responsible for their maintenance? Yes, because when the woman did not work outside, it was up to the man only to maintain the financial part, since the mothers had all day available to take care of the other aspects. Now, when they have the same 24 hours to divide between so many other occupations, it is possible, as a more plausible attitude, the division of tasks equally among the members of the family, regardless of the gender to which they belong.