PLZ SHARE---I wonder HOW MCFD can justify and answer mentally abusing and emotionally psychologically and permanently harming our children in care? My almost 10yo daughter specifically in Creston BC!
Yes the small town of Creston BC -
Bryce Loughran Social Worker---Lori Simpson - Supervisor and Wendy Wiens- Team leader----
HOW ABOUT THEY ACTUALLY COME UP WITH A CURRENT REASON FOR KEEPING MY DAUGHTER COMPLETELY ALIENATED FROM ME AND HER BROTHERS? THEY CANT! AND TELL ME WHY THIS ISNT HARMING HER MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY? THEY CANT!!! To tell her she will never see her mother again...HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO MY BABY?
THIS IS LEGAL KIDNAPPING, HOWEVER YOU LOOK AT THIS....PARENTAL ALIENATION, EMOTIONAL HARM FROM MCFD. I NEED HELP.
Children belong to parents, they do not belong to the Govt....IF said parent is PERFECTLY CAPABLE, STABLE, EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY ACCEPTABLE TO RAISE ANOTHER CHILD....then why cant I raise my daughter....MCFD states- and I quote from Cranbrook MCFD- "we have no current concerns for you raising your (then13yo) son...." UMMMM!!! I have NOT had ONE single concern since this all went down over 4years ago...I MADE the necessary changes!
Instead, Bryce, you send my daughter to an unstable adoptive home with an unstable family who's marriage was breaking down and after you realize you screwed up, she then missed over 2 months of school and went to foster homes across BC.....how the hell do you think this is OKAY??? THIS IS SO FAR FROM OKAY, she should have come home!
Our children's mental health cannot be "fixed" with a new forever family you promise them by adopting them out to strangers rather then sending them home where they belong! Our children's mental health cannot be fixed with simply seeing your therapist and all is now better...THEY NEED TO BE HOME! Lots of us good parents that have good homes deserve to have our kids back, yet by keeping these children, and alienating them from their families you are causing more harm then you could ever imagine, wrecking them for life! Then what...you kick them out , they run away, you give them back as a teen....now its up to me to FIX a messed up child that CHILD PROTECTION/MCFD in BC created. I raised an adult son who is doing very well, working stable & happy, another son who is 15 and he is stable and happy, doing well! I will be right here forever for my girl, until I see her again....
and this mother will be waiting for that day that she leaves you, runs away to look for me, I am a mother....FIRST! and never in my life will I give up on my daughter!
MCFD IS RESPONSIBLE FOR DESTROYING FAMILIES, there is no "we bring families together" that IS A LIE! (Im not completely knocking MCFD, they do protect children in many circumstances from parents who absolutely cannot take care of their children, addicts, and abusers....YET....they put us all in the same category and THAT IS WRONG!), many parents work hard to change and never look back, we deserve a review, there are many specific cases in BC
You are using millions of govt TAX dollars to KEEP FAMILIES APART AND DESTROY FAMILIES- Ministry of Children and Families in Creston BC- BRYCE LOUGHRAN you have spent upwards of $200, 000 of OUR TAX dollars on over 15+ court cases and 4 Supreme court cases.....keeping my daughter in care each year costs how much? AND FOR WHAT? WHEN SHE CAN COME HOME! There CURRENTLY isnt one single reason to keep her from us...her mother, 2 brothers that love her!
I will not go away! Ever- I am here for my girl, and if she ever reads this, sees what you have done to her.....realizes all the lies and crap and brainwashing you have fed her thru the years rather then send her home.....SHE WILL HATE YOU AND I WILL BE RIGHT HERE TO PICK HER UP AND BE HER MOTHER- #STOLEN BY MCFD....
How can MCFD justify and give factual answers when they keep our children from GOOD SAFE SOLID HOMES? The answers MCFD comes up with are talking in circles, they make no sense, reading from a script. They are unjust and there is no truth to this punishment we as parents are suffering- equivalent to a life sentence, against the principals of fundamental justice!
Our children that have been relocated and stolen, removed and kept from us for reasons they have fabricated, delusional opinions.....I realize I wsnt able to care for my child in 2014 however today RIGHT NOW - yes today 2018 for the past few years I AM ABLE TO, I never looked back....WHY cant I have my daughter MCFD? I dont want to hear opinions, or "possibilities of this happening" your thoughts are unrealistic and assumptions make these cases! This is unconstitutional and against our human rights in Canada! You kicked my 14yo son and myself out of Creston, an entire town....you took a job from my family because you told the judge my daughter might be anxious if she sees us in public...HOW COULD YOU SAY SUCH THINGS THAT ARE SO WRONG....MCFD SW Bryce has told my poor baby so much to make her scared, nervous and different....MY daughter TOLD ME in 2017 - Bryce said that she "SHE NEEDS TO RUN AWAY IF SHE SEES MOMMY, OR MY CAR....!!!!!" How could you say that my child? your allowed to abuse her and yet you claim I emotionally abused my children by staying in an abusive relationship so I never deserve her home? WHY can you do it?
Social Workers can do what they want with our kids and get away with anything since NO ONE regulates them or even questions their reasoning! Judges are on their side, colluding in most cases without even giving a parent a chance. MANY CASES NEED TO BE RE-LOOKED AT AND QUESTIONED- I deserve to have my child home! No system to review any cases!
WE ARE NOT GOING AWAY...I WILL NEVER STOP, and I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON MY DAUGHTER....#STOLEN BY MCFD facebook- please SHARE -" mcfd-legal-kidnapped" - website- https://mayabbb35.wixsite.com/mcfd-legal-kidnapped
Victoria...mommy is here for you, and Im so sad you suffering in care, you dont deserve to go through this, you dont deserve to lose your mommy and your 2 brothers and be expected to forget us....Im so so so sad, and so sorry, I love you more then anything, and Id give anything in the entire world to give you one more hug, to hold you again, and for you to KNOW that I never gave up! Mommy is HERE, and I promise you I am never ever going to give up. I love you.
thank you of course for upvoting, this is really something that somehow needs to be in the light, lots of our kids can and should come home, and even make room for kids that really need to be in care, and there are many many kids that unfortunately cannot be at home, mine isnt one of them!
Your all in my prayers.
I wish my full vote was worth more to help more.
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Maya, It's good to see you back on Steemit after a bit of a break.
My heard breaks for you and your daughter.
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That's real shitty, I think we the people need to say enough! want to help. What can I do? I live a couple hours away.
Im actually considering now requesting an evaluation fro myself and for her....If I have to request this in court I will, not to sure HOW to go about it, then worry about fund raising afterwards, I am def going to inquire about this possibility this week. for now if you can SHARE this, re-steem this as much as you can, all my stories...I need others to see, and or my FB mcfd-legal-kidnapped page in your area, lets keep this going. this mothers not going away! thank you
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thanks so much, yup thats meeee. and Im not gonna stop til this gets out there, that this is wrong!
I am very sorry for your family situation. It is sad and regrettable that this type of department acts in this way separating innocent children from their biological families exposing them to conditions that are harmful to their health, both psychological and physical, depriving them of the maternal relationship that only their true biological mother can provide. , I personally recommend that you request an exhaustive review of this cause or file to verify the detachment of your biological family and that you request a bio-psycho-social evaluation to validate the stability within your family nucleus and in this way clarify a little more the situation. I wish you a lot of luck and I hope that your case will be satisfactorily resolved soon .... regards
thank you, any info helps, Ive never heard of that, I requested a sec. 211 which Im guessing might be the same, where a psychologist evaluates the family brothers and her....HOWEVER problem is, she is in the care of MCFD, they are her guardian and even if I were to magically come up with 10g for that evaluation, teh chances that MCFD would agree Im sure would be slim....I am actually going to see about that, and if tehy would agree to my own child psychologist evaluating her, and IF I can get that eval done, I can possibly fund raise to pay for it....ummm, ideas!!! Lol.
good luck in the procedure and you can achieve your goal, god bless you
I am so sick and sorry for what has happened to you, Maya.
May Victoria come home to you soon.
the children belong to the loving families that watch over their integrity and development, I regret that your little one is not with you, we all know that it is a nightmare. Do not lose hope and keep fighting to get it back
I'm interested in helping @mayaabb