We live in an unknown world full of devise kinds fearful events. Fear is a sensation of lack of confidence, trust, power etc. When you loose confidence on a thing or person, fear sets in. Fear could come as a result of lack of trust on oneself or others. When one is weak in strength or does not have enough needed power to face off what is before him, then fear becomes inevitable. Humans develop different degrees of fear. What might be fearful to one may not be to another. Fear does not live in us, we develop it at a point in time, especially during a trying circumstance or a sudden occurrence of events. Fear is an expressive habit because when you develop fear it is glare to how you behave, talk, relate or manage such situation. A fearful person is more vulnerable to greater danger. The more fearful you become the more you get exposed to danger, because at that moment you loose control of yourself/mindset and so, you just follow whatever passes through your mind without given it a thought trying to escape from such incidence. Fear could make one jump up a story building without putting into consideration if his legs or he could die from such attempt, fear make one become suicidal.
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Fear is an enemy of destiny and life itself. Fear shouldn't be part of anyones life. I have witness an incidence of how fear bring an end to peoples life. A pregnant woman with her cousin were on a boat going to a market across the river to a neighboring town. On the way, something went wrong and water began to enter the boat, immediately they realized it, the people on the boat know the boat was about sinking, they were afraid, at a glance the pregnant woman and the cousin who didn't know how to swim were the first to jump into the water and it was unfortunate they couldn't rescue them. Had they not jump off, the may have not died. Fear is inimical to our life and health. Be fearless in any situation in order to have control of that situation.
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Fear creates a barrier to it victims. When you become afraid, you tend to avoid many things even if those things have the potentials of changing ones life. It looks like a fence, road block before you. Fear of failure, fear of being embarrassed in that situation, fear of people, fear of tomorrow, fear of lack of money, fear of previous failed attempts, fear of previous failed business (es), investment, previous failed relationship, marriage, career etc. Many things that temper with our emotions we carry them all over us and create fears in us and most times we fight for years trying to overcome those fears.
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Fear can delay destiny or even destroy it. It shouldn't be welcome whatsoever in ones life. We might not totally avoid being afraid of some things or situations but one must be strong enough to pull down any trace of fear. You live in darkness when you live with fear. As dangerous as the night is so is fear dangerous to any life. Be courageous. Don't let your body signal defeat to your enemy, don't let those trials see that you have given up. No situation is so mighty than your power unless you agree it is so. You can go far higher than where you re now if only you regain your self believe and confidence in those cases you think re impossible. You can change those negative to positive if you want to.
Don't complain when you come across trials, don't run away from it. Proof yourself. Seek power always, because power know no fear. When you have power you could stand against anything and anyone. Intellectual and physical strength re important. Be wise and be fit always. You can do all things with the backing power of God, your self believe or confidence, your knowledge and understanding, your physical well being. Put all this into consideration and you find yourself above fear... Be a fearless being to win in life.
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To live without fear might bring one more harm than help. Without fear, you won't have something to over come. You won't be able to grow out of your comfort areas and evolve your way of thinking.
Fear isn't something to live without, it's something to live with and to overcome. One who doesn't know fear won't know what to do when something so frightening does come into that persons life. But one who lives with fear, will know how it affects them and how to overcome it.
I live with fear, but I know how to walk by it and not let it take over my life.
Nice comment. Is very important to always have control over your fears that's what would give you the edge over any situation.