I think the generalizing is what will get you in trouble, saying 'women' rather than 'certain women'. I suspect you're right about a lot of what you say in terms of feminazis, and to a lesser degree women who consider themselves very independent.
The rape hysteria annoys the hell out of me, I do not believe that having sex when you're wasted is the man's fault or should be considered rape of any kind. If it were me I would take responsibility, I'm sure there's a good chance that the guy in the situation is pretty loaded too. If a woman is held down and forced when she clearly doesn't want it, that's rape. Using that word in all of these other situations is an insult to women who have actually been raped, which I imagine is a very traumatic experience.
Yeah, obviously when a woman dresses provocatively she is doing so to attract attention, and if she thinks she's only going to get the attention of those she wants attention from she's either a special kind of stupid or highly deluded.
I'm not really clear what constitutes a top 20% guy, do you mean wealthy? And I have to say it sounds as if you've had some bitter experiences. Maybe it's your location? What you're describing isn't as common where I'm from.
I actually think the real problem is men and women no longer know their roles in today's society. It's natural for a woman to want to be protected and provided for, to take care of the children and the home, but they're being taught that it's degrading. It's all part of an agenda to break down the family, which is evidenced by the extremely high divorce rates. Girls from a young age are being taught to use sex as either a tool or a reward, rather than it being a natural act of love. Over the years I've had a number of friends that withhold sex from their partners until certain conditions are met, then they're shocked when their men cheat. I try to explain to them that a guy needs to feel desired, and that most cheating is not about the other woman being more attractive but rather she makes them feel attractive.
Seriously, who would you rather go to bed with, a beautiful girl who's like "Fine, get it over with" or a cute girl who's like "Come here you sexy man". (Considering what you wrote at the end you might also want to think about the kind of women you're approaching and broaden your search a bit? Look for the ones with genuine smiles and especially laughter)
Good advice. But, its not about me. My mother destroyed me from ever being able to form a loving, sexual relationship.
There are studies and on going research.
Like one, that gave a random sampling of photos to guys and girls.
Men said they would date 80% of the those pictured.
Women said they would date 20% of those pictured.
This also holds with data from plenty of fish and other such sites.
You do realize that when you put together the two points you made :
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together they make the point that women are completely justified in being very particular in trying to pick the the right man for her future needs as they (the women) are going to pay a high price if they choose badly. Many men seem to resent that women are so choosy if a woman decides on meeting him that another man might better suit her future needs. You don't end up married to the guys you don't date.
I would agree with you, accept for math.
Sure, from a woman's point of view, aiming for that top 20% is the thing to do.
Accept that, 80 women, (of each 100) are trying to marry 20 guys.
60 women are going to fail.
Unless of course, we start allowing multiple wives.