I have no problem with feminism... But I'd rather support equality for all. That's worthy of one's devotion; true equality.
Whether or not the entire feminism culture has been hijacked one way or the other, it's a topic of conjecture really.
My philosophy, is that we're all one. You don't have to promote feminism, because I've got your back in any event. (Metaphorically speaking of course; I'm not labeling you in any way other than being that of a human).
Regarding sexism, I'm not overly sensitive to it; I have really thick skin, but don't make fun of anyone. (When I was a young immature brat well, that's a different story. How's that for a damaging admission?).
;)
Stay cool.
You're cool with me if I'm cool with you.
I think that equality for all is the best route to take. It's simple, easy to define, the word/phrase itself says what you'd think it means, and you can't easily tack on additional political ideas. It stands alone strongly.