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RE: "I have lost passion for my husband but I don't want to cheat. What is the solution?"

in #fidelity7 years ago

I agree with your answer, everything depends on the morality of the people. I suppose that if this couple is together it's because before committing they defined their rules, it will be wrong only if being with the "model" breaks those agreed rules.

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Indeed.
Each person has their morality, but once making a bond they should stick to what was agreed 🤝

Sometimes we make agreements that can be unanimously discontinued. Yeah, it's disappointing and very sad, it will feel terrible and may bring unfortunate consequences, but in this case, for example, if continuing the marriage will bring her to a life of pain until she's old, loyally holding to the agreement regardless of consequences may not be the best choice.

You already suggested the possibility of divorce, but I wanted to reinforce the idea that contracts cannot bind people beyond their ability to follow them without incurring in self-damage, in my opinion, at least.