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RE: "I have lost passion for my husband but I don't want to cheat. What is the solution?"

in #fidelity7 years ago

This a great post to all of us who intend to join that institution of marriage and even those in that bracket.

We all know that relationships normally lose their salt and there thing which cause all these but the first step in you is not to allow it cover your mind. Your mind set determines alot on this but the most profound thing when you have lost the taste in your husband and you cannot cheat is that build it back inside you and root out the past and these are things which normally creep in our marriages bcz you need to accomplish something somewhere before you completely settle.

If you cannot cheat when you are fed upof your husband, then ask yourself, what must i do to renew the salt in the marriage and how best will you do it because these are normally personal decisions which we normally have to deal with at an intimate level.

If possible, sit and talk to your man and find a way forward because it is not your problem at times but it may be for your husband and see to it that such accounts are settled in time before it goes out of hand.

Lastly try out something new with him and never know something new may need to be put to test but dont involve your friends, i have come to understand that the most worries arise from intimacy and probabaly sexual unsatisfaction in bed some times the guy being boring in bed but learn him and give it small time but dont cheat, the more you are with him the more you get back the pleasure and the feelings flow as before.

It happened to me but the more i was with my woman, she later got her pleasure and feelings in intimacy and its now the good way i can say.

Am grateful for this post bcz i have learnt something from it.