I created an account, I'm not sure I'll really use the site.
To your point though, would it not be better to fall in love with someone who thinks you're physically unattractive, but only to show that you're actually fit as fuck later? I don't think it's any more shallow to be attracted to wealth and earning potential (which translates into stability, security) than looks. That said, a site like that isn't necessarily the best place to search, but I don't think being on it makes you a gold digger either.
very interesting perception and i agree , just gotta be careful for those who are not nice! but security and stability for a woman is everything!