Here in my locality, there are a lot of plant herb materials that have been shown to proven aphrodisiacs, their effectiveness sometimes threading towards unhealthy level.
Yeah, the potential side-effects of these drugs/herbs are concering and in most cases not fully understood. This is also why most researchers recommend to stay away from them until further understanding of the mechanics involved has been accomplished.
There are, of course, a lot more potential herbs I could have covered - but these were at least the most famous ones, which are usually featured in any kind of recommendation of how to increase your sex life. So, it seemed important to me, to cover at least these and explain whether there is something about them or not.
We are probably not supposed to be together if I have to take an aphrosidiac in order to satisfy you
I would disagree there. I think, there is way more to the emotional connection between two people than the mere sex drive. In my opinion, sex is the least important of all aspects - but I'm a bit weird in this regard, so I'm by no means a standard to be pit against.
I think we are talking about the same thing here. Sex represents a small percentage in a good relationship but could scatter the whole thing if the two people involved are not compatible in their sexual drives.