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Sometimes it's hard to get along or we are forced to get along with others just because society says we should, if your have your personal reasons not to get along with them it's understandable and I am sure the traits that made you not like them have been discarded from you as a parent for I can see you are a loving and doting mom to yours. And that is all that matters in the end <3

My parents weren't the best, very violent, I don't have those traits, My daughters are my life not my punch bags

And that my dear is what makes you a wonderfully admirable woman and mother <3

Thank you :) <3