Raising a child? Thinking of reproduction?

Do you know what is the root of evil in the world? My answer may surprise you (you will find it below in the post).

"Ballad about Johnny" is an old film (series) that tells the story of a single mother raising a son.

https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmNaNdiDw9ibD7pQcmoVmqQ531gGZH6qEZo9K4bHiiHMtu

Johnny is a child without a father.
Johnny's mother is a hard-working woman who does not have enough time to bring him up, instead "raising" is taken over by the school, "street", colleagues.

At Johnny's and his mother Genevievea's home there is a lack of a man who would be a male role model for the boy, a support for the family and a person earning money.

Mother often raises with the help of such resources as belt, reprimands, shouts.

Johnny grows into a rogue and a no-chance man. The boy beats his mother, spends her hard-earned money, brings his friends home, enslaves girls, smokes, drinks. He goes to the reformatory and is not, in general, a role model teenager.

I am writing about this film as a canvas, based on which I want to show you my opinion and get to know your opinion on dysfunctions in the families and their impact on the upbringing and development of children and the fate of this world.

My conclusions (opinions):

the child needs both parents,
the process of education should rest mainly on the family,
parents should be ready to have a child and should know how to raise it,
parents should have a lot of time to raise their children,
the child should be taught critical thinking, self-control, discipline,regularity and the values and skills that will help it in life,
parents who can not create a reality that improves the quality of life of future generations may consider not creating.

The post contains my opinions, which I confess at this time, maybe in the future they will change.

I respect the opinions of others, I also ask for respect for my opinions. I do not want to hurt anyone's fillings, if you feel unpleasant after reading, it is your state that you create in yourself. You go to the post, you have your expectations and you read it - same here, but please remember that these are only your expectations, not my promises.

I have not seen the Devil, I have not seen God, I do not know if there is Heaven, Hell or "extra-terra-carte world", but I know one thing: a man can be an "angel" and can be a "demon", be able to think creatively or destructively, can build or destroy, and most importantly, he can think or think that one is thinking, what follows: creation of "good" and / or "evil".

Who is my finger pointing to rest a blame upon? Do it yourself and look for the one who is guilty:

I will advise you how to find the guilty party:

straighten your arm in front of you,
index finger streight,
bend your arm in your elbow,
bend the wrist.

Who is the finger showing?

I'm not saying you're guilty, I'm just talking about feeling responsible.

Answering the question from the beginning of the post: in my opinion, man is responsible for all the evil in the world.

Maybe two sentences will help ...

https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmRJ8D13GCdovqKbfZU8mDRW73LxJSaWH4BeZPv6SNCRGU

I am an adult, I blame myself and I take responsibility for myself (my thoughts, words, actions).

I do not blame my neighbor, my mother, my father, my wife, my children, politicians, bankers, wars, history, producers of garbage, other countries in the world, immigrants, bad mood, alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, lack of money, lack of work, apathy, depression , "autism inducing vaccines", climate change, God, Devil, chance, luck or unhappiness.

Learn it yourself (by your own experience), show good attitude by example and teach your child how to be a man who takes responsibility for oneself, in the future, for a small man (child) who will take over this world for "co-management" and for the Earth where his ancestors lived and child's children will live.

I suggest that each of us does the same.

This World, "bad and good results" are created by our choices (my choices, your choices), every little thing, word, deed determines what is happening.

In this World of speed, scarcity, overcrowding, I will find time to stop, think, say the right word, do the right thing - I will do it all, because: "I" create reality!

Thank you :)

https://ipfs.busy.org/ipfs/QmRj1tpSC7Y16mdXCCGeQvE24E4JeMc2ZvRjGTDH2gTu2E

Peter @ abc.love.steemit

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